What is an EXACT way to completely get rid of stretch marks for African American Women?

Okay Ladies (and Gentlemen with knowledge of the subject or expertise), I'm an young african american woman who's getting married before the end of summer 2010. We all love to look our best, so I've heard the maybes like Palmer's Coco-er and the other brands, but is there anything that will erase them COMPLETELY??? Come on, I know some of you have dealt with this before, so any secrets, home remedies, or medical procedures you have DO SHARE!!!!